Psychologists have suggested that all humans have a basic, motivational drive to design and maintain caring interpersonal relationships. According to this view, people must both stable relationships and satisfying interactions with the people in those relationships. If either of these two ingredients is missing, people will begin to feel anxious, lonely, depressed, and unhappy.

Relational dialectics Asian Dating regards relationships not as static entities, but as continuing processes, forever changing. This approach sees nonstop tension in the negotiation of three main issues: autonomy vs. connection, novelty vs. predictability, and openness vs. closedness.